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Middle School

Hotlines 

Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Call- 988; Text- 988
National Domestic Violence: Call- 800-799-7233; Text BEGIN to 88788
National Alliance for Eating Disorders: 866-662-1234

Feeling overwhelmed? Try this. 

The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique: ​
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Check out kind words and actions worksheet: What are some kind words you can say to yourself, and kind actions you can take, and kind things you can do for yourself, a) in the next few hours, and b) in the next few days and weeks?
Journaling: 
Click the button to see 100 journaling prompts 
Prompts

​Check out this "permission slip":
 Write a permission slip to yourself for the things you want to do, say, feel, be, etc.
Worksheet
Click this website to explore more about feelings!
Permission Slip
feelings

My Wellness Plan Downloadable PDF!

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School Help 

ProQuest
Tutor.com
Khan Academy

The Trevor Project: You deserve a welcoming, loving world

Watch this video to learn about the Trevor project
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​Click on this image to reach a counselor. 

Healthy Relationships

Healthy relationships feel safe, supportive, and equal. You always have the right to say no, speak up, and ask for help.

                                  Some relationship red flags: 🚩​​

*manipulation and control 
           *They say things like, "If you really loved me, you would...".
           *They try to control what you wear, do, and who you hangout with.
*​Digital
         
*They demand your passwords. 
           *They ask you to send pictures you are not comfortable with. 
*Disrespect 
           *They ignore your feelings. ("You're to sensitive")
           *They don't listen or make you feel bad for saying no. 

*​Jealousy or Possessiveness 
           *They don't want you spending time with other people. 
           *They accuse you "cheating" when you talk to other people. 
*Anger or Fear 
            *You feel like "you're walking on eggshells" around them. 
            ​*They threaten to hurt themselves if you break up with them.

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Take this relationship quiz to examine the patterns in your relationship and determine whether you’re in a healthy one. 
Quiz
What you can say:
*That is not ok with me.
*If you care about me, you will respect my boundaries. 
​*I need to talk to someone about this. 

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Addiction 

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If you are struggling with nicotine addiction you can get a quit kit from DMYFS. Click this button to Kick-Nic!
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Struggling with addiction try the harm reduction approach: Harm reduction refers to a range of services and policies designed to lessen the negative consequences associated with drug use. Abstaining from drug use is not required for a harm reduction approach.
harm reduction

Healthy Eating 

Fuel your brain. Boost your mood. Take care of your body.
All bodies are different and changing, and that is normal!

What does healthy eating actually mean?
Healthy eating= fuel, not rules.

*Eating a mix of foods that help your body grow and feel good.
*Having enough energy to focus, move, and sleep well.
*Listening to your body: eating when you're hungry, stopping when you're full.


Quick Nutrition Facts: 
*Drink water (aim for 6-8 cups daily)
*Fruits and veggies= power snacks 
*Whole grains give you lasting energy 
*Protein helps your body grow strong 
*Eat breakfast even if its small
*Sweets are ok, just don't skip meals for them 
How food affects your mood: 
*Skipping meals can make you feel tired, irritable, or foggy.
*Eating regularly helps with focus, emotions, and energy. 


Avoid food stress: 
You don't have to eat "perfectly" to be healthy.
Middle school is not the time to...
*Diet or skip meals 
*Compare your plate to others
*Feel bad about enjoying food
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Click the learn more button for 32 learning resources for eating disorders and recovery:
Learn More
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Nutrition for mental health

Bullying Resources 

What is bullying?- Repeated, unwanted aggressive behavior that involves a power imbalance 
Click the button below to learn what you can do to help stop bullying. ​
Stop bullying
Types of bullying: 
  • physical: hitting, kicking
  • verbal: name-calling, teasing 
  • social: excluding someone, spreading rumors 
  • cyber: online harassment, mean texts 
Signs someone may be getting bullied: 
  • sudden mood changes 
  • avoiding school or certain people 
  • unexplained injuries or lost belongings 
  • changes in eating or sleeping habits 
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  • Home
  • About
    • Meet Our Team
  • Upcoming Events
  • Durham Fair
  • Expressions of Healing
    • 2025 Art Book
  • Donate
  • Programs
    • Mental Health Book Club
    • TUMM: Community Cooking
    • Nice or Nothing >
      • Healthy Communication
    • Babysitter Training Class
    • Community Conversations
    • E.D.G.E
    • Developmental Assets
  • Juvenile Review Board
  • DMLWC
  • Get Involved
  • Resources
    • Psychiatry
    • Addiction
    • LGBTQIA+
    • Victim Support
    • Mental Health
    • Parenting
    • Eating Disorders
    • Basic Needs
    • Elementary School
    • Middle School
    • High School
  • Contact
  • Blog